If the shoe fit wear it! Love is such a crazy game and for many people it is just that; a game. Have we ever stop to think that when we play the field as young people that we are hurting people? What does it profit you to be a man or womanizer?  Do we really know the pain that we inflict when we have more than one partner?

Have we ever stop to think about the stress that we cause upon ourselves when we continue to tell lies after lies to cover the things we do in an effort to stay on top of our game? Oh the web we weave! The funny thing about this is that it cost the “galis” and even the “manist” so much it would have been better if they had stayed single. Is it really worth it to be a man or womanizer? Show me how?

It is always great to be known as the ‘’galis” in Jamaican terms. Its quite ironic though that the woman who does the same thing as a man don’t really get the same pat on the back. Men or even teen males are given a pat on the back because this is how society wants them to be. This is never right as a teen or adult and we should learn to treat each other with respect.

When a male or a female play the field someone is bound to get hurt. The person who you are playing with might just be very serious. Walking away with scant regards for the feelings of the person who is now hurting is very cruel. It is not fair to play with anyone’s emotion. This can lead to some serious repercussions which might just include violence. Someone could be scared for life. They could do damage to themselves while you are smiling and talking about your great exploits.

Our partners feelings must be taken into consideration before we allow them to fall in love and it’s all just one sided.