I have realized that its okay for females to get emotional about things that matter but when it comes on to men being emotional its feminine. Now Really? Is it that men are irons and the only time when their soft side is seen it has to be a time of love making or some form of intimacy. Is it that the only time they can be seen crying is when someone close to them die? Really?
Females have a tendency to take on too much and when it gets stressful they throw it at the males saying that they are not being helpful or they have no clue how they feel. Then they burst out crying emotionally charged. Of course men should now just take up the case and run with it. Who took up those responsibilities? Is it because men choose to take on those things that we know we are quite capable of handling? Do you as women take on too much? Could your great ability as females to multifunction sometimes be your down fall?
Why is it that males ninety percent of the times have to be the ones to initiate intimacy? You know this is true ladies. As emotional and caring beings ,don’t you believe that men would love to feel special too. They need to feel wanted in the very same way that you would want to feel needed. Men are emotional beings as well. Men love the idea to be taken out and pampered too, not just on their birthdays. They want to know that you care about them just as you want to know they care about you. Men love affirmations.
Men love the idea when the ladies who are around them boost their ego in a positive way as they move forward. It pulls the best man out of them. Men are not babies. They are to be treated like the strong emotional men who they are. Men do not easily speak about what affects them ,they tend to internalize and so allowing their emotions to show help with their mental health. Do this and you will find a more caring and communicative male around you. You will find someone who is willing to go the extra mile for you and with you. Now wouldn’t you like that? Men are emotional beings too!
Do you believe it is okay for you as a female to be shouting and behaving in an embarrassing way towards your husband or boyfriend ? What happens when he begins to answer you and it becomes an argument? Would you consider him feminine because he has feeling and words just like you do? Men are emotional beings as well and they might even be more fragile than you think. Its just that it does not show because they have to be men. A strong independent emotional woman needs a strong, powerful emotional man so that the home can be a balanced one. One that is a haven for both male and female .
Home is where all the masks are taken off and the real people relate to each other in those areas of their lives that makes them strong for others. Exhibiting your emotions is not feminine as a male, it is being human. Men are emotional beings too.